Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

how to get laid fast – yeah, maybe i’m a perv, but i’m 19 and i am a virgin? i dont like going out to clubs or places like those, but if those are the only places where you can meet girls, then i;ll go there. but i need to know how to approach a girl and how to become confident and calm, to release myself of the fear.
lately, i simply wanna sleep with a girl and then never call her again

My answer:

I remember being in the same situation as you. Look, you have already made some good decisions about bars and clubs, because they are definitely the hardest places ever to go and search for sex. And you are not a perv, it’s okay to be a man and have sexual wants. Your shame of that is what prevented you from having sex in the first place.

You are asking me to tell you how to be calm, confident, and how to approach a girl? That’s a hell of a lot for me to show you in these few articles.

Look, there are many great places on the internet where you can find articles and books on “how to be more confident, social and have more success with women”.

But first, take care of that virginity thing as fast as possible any way possible. Go to a prostitute if you have to, or find some really desperate girl who’ll have sex with anyone. You do not even realize how much the virginity thing is holding back your success with women.

So, take care of that first and then find some personal development books that show you how to be more confident and social in general.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

I need to get laid! What is the easiest way to do this for free? I seriously need to just get laid! and really don’t need people telling me to pay for it. But can you suggest something besides going to a bar? Help me out! I am very good looking, just got out of a relationship not too long ago

My answer:

There is no easy way that you can get laid for free. The exception is if you are very popular. Hey, you are kind of like me. I also hate going to bars and clubs to meet women, much less going to a prostitute.

You can approach women during the daytime. In the seduction community, the call it DayGame. I recommend the author Kevin Bates. He is best for starters on DayGame.

You can also just go out and ask women for sex. You will probably have to ask dozens of them till one says yes. And, this really takes a lot of courage.

If you have friends that have female friends, ask them to set you up.

You can also try speed dating. Some also like online dating, but this is not my field, so I can’t help you with that one.

Whatever you do, don’t seem so needy to the women that you are just trying to get laid.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

Why do i get laid more since becoming an azzhole? I used to be the nicest guy in the world. I would treat any woman like a queen. would do anything for her. Buy her things and take care of her the best i could. I had some really long lasting relationships but those girls always hurt me and dumped me for the bad boy. I became bitter and turned into an azzhole. im confident in myself and say exactly whats on my mind without caring who i offend. Every since becoming an azzhole i get laid more. Why is this?

My answer:

Well, first of all, congratulations to you on this. Most guys in this world never get this. Most men go through all their lives being too nice and getting dominated by women.

About your previous situation, I can only say that it is hard-wired in the human and animal world. Look at Discovery channel and how animals act there. It is brutal survival. The nicest lose. The most brutal win.

In the human world, nice tells the woman that you have bad and weak genes and that she should stay away from you. A woman doesn’t need a nice man as much as she needs a man who has genes capable of survival. Your genes now say exactly that.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

Getting Laid? What are the some good tips for getting laid?
What works for you? Besides booze.
Like if a girl asked me to hang out, what could I do that would lead to sex?
Im not a pervert, I just have no clue how to get laid.

My answer:

If a girl asks you to hang out, take it as a sign that there is a big chance she wants to have sex with you.

Look, booze is the wrong way. With alcohol, you might act stupid and regret the whole thing, if you remember it at all!

I used to have problems with this too. There is no short cut to solving this. If a girl calls you to hang out, make sure that you at least try to kiss her when you’re together.

By the way, go online and search on how to be more confident with women. I see that you feel that you are a pervert for wanting sex. You probably have years of limiting beliefs regarding women and sex. It will take time to fix this, but be patient.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

how am i supposed to get laid tonight with yahoo messenger being down?

My answer:

Well, you have so many other way. But all of them are a numbers game of course. You can try MSN messenger, Skype, Facebook, or MySpace.

You can also go out to the bars or clubs. It depends on what type of guy are you. If you like do talk normally with no distractions, then you’ll probably prefer online dating. If you are the party type of guy, you will probably prefer going out to a bar or club.

Whatever works for you, maximize it. You can even combine both approaches and see how the mix. Just remember that all approaches are a numbers game with a similar ratio of success.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

how can i meet someone and get laid tonight? i try to meet up with people on craigslist but they are all bots. someone help me. it hast to be free

My answer:

You can always go to a bar or club. But, in my opinion, that should be your last resort. If you want to get laid fast and you have courage, try this.

Go outside and ask women for sex directly. No, I am n0t kidding. Because, whatever method of meeting women you try, the result is going to be probably about 1 in 20. That means that for 20 approached in one day, you MAYBE have sex with one woman.

Don’t forget, that way that I suggested will only work if you are direct and sincere. No joking around or acting like you are someone else. This approach fits exactly with the old saying “no risk, no gain”, only in a more extreme way.

Is it actually easy to get laid? Yes, sometimes.. Getting laid can be easy or it can difficult, it depends on you. For some it’s easy, for some it’s not. Why? There are few simple reasons that differentiate the men who get laid and the men who don’t.  It’s all about few simple skills anyone can posses. So what are these skills? Just read on and you will find out how to get laid in a very easy and elegant manner.

One of the best ways to getting laid is also one of the most counter-intuitive ones. Just pretend that you don’t want to get laid. That’s the big secret. Let me explain this some more. Woman’s worst fear is to date a guy who is a pervert. They don’t want men who want sex, they want men who want romance. And so the guys who want romance get romance and sex, and the guys who want only sex get nothing. Please do not talk about sex at all, and you will see the strangest thing – woman will start talking about sex. Hmmm.

Second, make her comfortable. Do not act needy and talk about sex in the first moment you meet a woman. Relax, take a deep breath. First let her become comfortable with you. When she becomes comfortable, she will have no excuse for NOT having sex with you. Make her open by waiting. No woman gets into bed with a guy she fears. Well maybe with a rapist she does, but I’m sure you don’t want to be that.

And third, make her comfortable with your body. Also make yourself comfortable with her body. Let her touch you first, and do not touch her unless you feel she is ready. There is an exception to this rule, if a girl is very shy you can make your move first IF she is giving very strong “go ahead” signals.

Yes, it’s that simple. Now go get laid!

I know, I know.. All of us guys want to get quickly in the sack with any half decent looking woman. That’s just how things are. The only bad thing about is that the more we show our desire to a woman the more she cools off. Very strange, but it’s true. I remember a some time ago I was proposing sex to women online. In the start of the conversation everything went fine. But as more I was talking about sex the more she was becoming stand-offish to the whole sex idea. Of course girls showed interest in the start but I managed to blew it up. Since that time I have learned a few nice tricks to prevent no-sex from happening.

We get so excited just about the idea of getting physical with the women sometime in the future that we mess up everything in the present. Don’t do that dreaded mistake. Men want everything FAST, but women are completely different. Actually they want it fast too, but they fake it so that they don’t look cheap. So we must play their game. Women want a challenge and an easy gradual escalation. Don’t get me wrong, she must know that you want to have sex with her. But also she needs to know that you don’t want it THAT much. Actually here’s a little sleazy secret, women know that you want to have sex with them! They know it from the moment they see you. Do you think that they are stupid. So it is okay to move interaction towards sex, as long as you are a challenge to her.

Flip the script on them and make the situation that she wants to get in bed with you, not the other way around. This is an excellent little trick. You can also drop little hints concerning sex when you casually talk to a woman. Just wait for the right time in the conversation, and then drop little sex hints. Another important thing is that you must start touching a woman right of the bat. By doing this you show her that you are sexual guy, but you don’t blatantly say it. Body talks more than words. Just casually touch her hands, waist and other body parts. She will get the message. But please don’t do it without calibration, do it when it’s appropriate. Actually when you start touching women, do it all the time. By doing this all the time you will naturally develop a knack for it.

Getting laid is actually simple and easy.. if you act normal and avoid some dumb mistakes. Below are the three biggest mistakes guys can do when they approach women with sex in mind.

Cheesy Pick-Up Lines

A pick-up line is a simple way to introduce yourself to a stranger and start a conversation. They should be normally be funny and interesting. But many guys live in an illusion that a pick-up line should sweep the women of her feet and that she will right there jump in the sack with you when she hears the line. No, so don’t try any of the cheesy pick up lines, they don’t work on girls. Instead think of a something simple and interesting that can start the conversation. Remember the old maxim “Less is more”. Start the conversation with a simple line and see where it goes.

Complimenting/Favoring/Buying drinks the RIGHT way

Buying a drink for a girl is completely ok. As is giving compliments and doing favours for a girl. IF you do them with the right intention. If you have creepy underlining motives thinking that if you do one million favours for her she will sleep with you – then doing these things are not ok. You probably think that she will think that you are a really nice guy and that that will get her to sleep with you. No. That’s a manipulative tactic, don’t use it. Women spot this cheesy acting right of the bat. Do these thing only from the right reasons.

I know that if you buy a drink for a girl just for the sake of simply buying a drink that the girl will more likely to sleep with you than if you bought it because you THOUGHT that this will get her to your bed. Try it.