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I dont like going out to clubs or places like those, but if those are the only places where you can meet girls, then i’ll go there. but i need to know how to approach a girl and how to become confident and calm, to release myself of the fear.
lately, i simply wanna sleep with a girl and then never call her again
My quick answer to this question:
I seriously recommend going to Vegas and hiring an escort. Why? Because you seriously seem to be overestimating the significance of a one-night-stand. You probably have this fantasy that a lot of guys have. You go into some club, see some girl you only are attracted to physically… walk up, say a few things, take her home, have sex… Never see her again. This is most often a common fantasy among virgins, specifically because they have no experience.
Its not that great… In fact, a lot of the time it sucks. At best… Its no better than getting laid any other way (friends, acquaintances, relationship, dating, etc)…
If you do hire an escort for a night, you’ll get to find out what its like at its best. This is what your result will be on a good night if you get really, really good at picking up women. If you’re anything less than one of the best at picking up women… Most of the time you’ll end up with a drunken chubby girl that’s not exactly your type.
My suggestion – get laid the regular way first. Get a girlfriend… No, not the most stunning girl in the universe… just any girl you find ok and who’s into you. Get some experience, than work from there.
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Step One – Alcohol
Step Two – Remove Pants
Step Three – Insert
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Good luck?
PS. Yeah, lose it soon. You’re 19 for Christ’s sake.
well bro, i can already tell you are a nerd, thats cool n **** but yenno youre a nerd, you probably wont be able to get a girl anywho seeing as though you want advice on talking with girls = youve never talked with girls anyways, now everyone knows if you want to get laid you gotta talk to a girl really well or shes gotta have some physical attraction to you which you probably dont have with your acne covered face, if you were to go to the clubs or bars, you probably got no friends to go with and if you do then you would go there and be tryna get pussy with a pack of friends who look lost, so really if you wanna get laid fast, find a girl wherever you work or live or get some new friends @ school or if u dont go to school then work and girls will like you if you belong toa group of ppl and they find you a great personality but if ur just a nerd, just admit it, youre probably a horny nerd, with not as many friends and you wanna get laid, but its really harrd without a good set of friends + attractiveness and great personality, capiche?
lol i lost mine at 14 ya i know really younge but thats not the point dont pay a slut u will get an std. what you should do is if there are any girls at ur work that are ok looking and single just for a one night stand become there friend this may take a lil tlaking to i know talkign sucks but it worked for me just listen to her then hang out get her not like completely wasted but u know a lil buzzed and she will be greatful that u listened to her earlier and you jsut got to lay down the charm dude ;P
you wanna sleep with a random girl and get chlamydia
good luck with that
seriously what is up with virgiins wanting to get laid
trying to be cool
trying to be a “man”
In the near future, say when you are in your late twenties, you will meet girls you actually will like the fact that you are a virgin
Take my word
Save your virginity for someone you love and not for some std carrying slut
Just be yourself…what are you afraid of exactly rejection? If that is so don’t be worried about that because there are SO many girls out there. Just talk to her very nicely and don’t seem like a creep either girls hate that maybe make a small joke about something going on around you girls love to laugh. If you just wanna sleep with someone like a one night stand then hire a prostitute
bastard.
i can see why you haven’t gotten laid yet. so who cares if your a virgin and 19? you can always lie about it.
and if you just wanna sleep with a girl just so you aren’t a virgin any more, well then you’re a complete fool.
if you wanna get laid so damn badly go and find some whore.
men like you are scum that don’t deserve to find a woman until they man up and mature!
ok well be proud ur still a virgin lol but if u really wanna loose it on just a one night thing then ya clubs are the places to go and so just make eye contact with a hot girl.. let her no u think she is hot look her up and down and then if she is like at a bar go up and sit next to her and ask her a question.. anything and start a convo then introduce urself and go from there or just walk up to her and ask her to dance if its that kinda club if not… idk
well first of all…. You are on the right track to racking up your # and your STD’s… A wham bam thank you ma’am is NEVER the right thing to do! You kind of disgust me actually. You are the kind of guy that I have warned my daughter about… Good luck finding a trashy girl who would just jump into bed with you, chances are you will find one and chances are… she is DIRTY!
Don’t do it you will be sorry,there are alot of things you can get just the first time.And you can nt trust anyone to tell you the truth.Be ready to get awful sick.I was sick for 3 months and I was married to the guy.You are playing with fire.
Having sex isnt something you should rush. You should have a connection. It makes sex that much better. IDK, hire a prostitute. Thats easy and simple. But if you are a nice guy, why dont you just find a fb. Post an add on craigslist for a fu** buddy and see what happens. Be patient and that girl will come along.
that’s a stupid way to lose your virginity!
girls might actually like you more for being a virgin!
it means you’re S.T.D-free
but seriously, if you really just wanna have a one night stand,
a club or pub is the best place to go i suppose :/
BEWARE OF AIDS!
that can be hard to come by. Being 19 and a virgin isn’t that awful. But if you really want someone, find a desperate girl. Or an ugly/fat one that will think you are amazing. I don’t approve, butttt if you’re that hard up….
Lust and adultery are sinful things.
walk in the ways of the lord if you want to inherit the kingdom of god.
God still loves thoes who practice sin.
wow your a jerk you want to sleep with a girl and then never call her again. Guys like you are why girls get broken hearts. go jerk off and call it a day a** hole.
honey be proud your virgin not everyone has a there v-card.am 16 and am still a virgin so am proud of my self.
and so should you and try finding some one worth instead of trying to get laid
Be confident, a jerk, and pretend youre rich. That’ll do it for a quick **** from a random girl at a club.
wait a hole get a life you perv. lowlife good for nothing jack a. no girl execpt for the local slut would sleep with you. you should wait. and wat if u get her pregnat?!?!?!?! jack.a, ss
Well I find that kinda boring, its better when you’re in a relationship with someone you truely care about..
but i guess if you want a one night stand then call a hooker.
ur lame ull do that eventually if u want it enough but unless u are completely emotionless ull regret it eventually
I think what you are looking for is a prostitute.
where u from i’ll come over : ) im ugly though. and fat. but im desperate too. lol.
Be glad that you are a virgin, im 19 lost my virginity last year and now i wish I hadnt, lost it.
Remember this, women can smell desperation a mile away!
drunk, single girls are always extra friendly.. just be yourself and if the girl digs you, go for it
call me…..hahahhaha or write
Dude what’s your hurry you want one night stand why don’t you do find yourself a girlfriend
Go downtown and get a hooker. Good luck with your future std.
yea you are GET A LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…
find the nearest strip club loloolol
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