Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasn’t taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: ‘Cause how I see it the virgin hears how great sex is and how much he/she is missing out. It is like the holy grail, especially for guys. But if you’re not a virgin and can’t get laid you know what it’s like. You know what you’re missing out on. You’re like an addict who needs his fix maybe? So what does everyone think?
Answer:
Nah, its actually the opposite. Virgins tend to idealize sex… they think it its the holy grail, so they are more desperate about it. They feel a greater shame about never having gotten laid… Unless, they’re the “dealt with it” type of virgin. This type of virgin has found a way to make virginity easier, by having a certain story like “oh I’m just picky” or “all women suck anyway”. Stuff like that you see.
But it doesn’t really matter though. There’s all kinds of people. There’s all kinds of virgins, and there’s all kinds of non-virgins. I bet there’s guy who are getting laid more than average, yet feel bad because they compare themselves to unrealistic standards. It doesn’t matter.
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Neither – I mean, who cares? It’s just sex.
It’s worst when you have already had sex the memories will always be there for you to remember and you’ll want it more
It’s dilemmas like this that pushed me towards abstinence. Maybe I’m romantic, or just old fashioned, but I like the idea of only being truly intimate with one person.
I say that it is worse being a virgin. You think that you are never going to get laid. if you have been laid already, you know it is just a matter of time before you get lucky again. Be sure to award the 10 points to whoever you thinks is the best answer. So many ask questions on here and don’t give the 10 points.
I think having had sex and not being able to get laid, because most virgins choose to be that way for whatever reason. but on the other hand if you have done it and havent for a long time or cant seem to get laid that sounds like it would suck ass lol just my opinion though
It’s kinda sad having, had tasted the apple from in the Garden of Eden and then being unable to return there for a second bite!
I just dont see why sex would be such a big deal to either party. Alot of people are virgins by choice. And i cant see the comparison between sex and addiction, sure sex is good but there is not chemical pull to it.
OMG. UR NOT MISSING OUT ON ANYTHING. IF U DECIDE TO GIVE YOURSELF TO ANYONE ITS BEST IT BE SOMEONE YOU’VE BEEN WITH FOR A VERY LONG TIME! if your not a whore, man whore, lol… sex is something emotional. its more emotional than pleasurable. epecially in the begining of your relationship. its very much worth to wait. ur not missin out.
ps. porn helps for knowledge of what to do for first timers.
I think it’s worse being a Virgin and the reason why is, When it’s people you know who are not virgins they can rub it in your face until it makes you fell bad. If you already had sex and never had it again, at least u know what it felt like. But knowing me I’ll probably die a virgin I hope not.