Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: What are the some good tips for getting laid?
What works for you? Besides booze.
Like if a girl asked me to hang out, what could I do that would lead to sex?
Im not a pervert, I just have no clue how to get laid.
Answer: First of all, do not make excuses for wanting to get laid. Its a normal human want and desire. Not only are you not a pervert for asking, you’re brave and it takes some balls to ask it. Most people act like you’re supposed to stumble over sex in blissful ignorance, they’re just faking it, and wish they get laid more.
Now… What can you do that gets you laid, when you are with a girl? Its simple, just flirt, just focus on communicating your sexual desire. Either through sexual innuendo and/or sexual eye-contact. Look deeply into her eyes while you imagine how you’re making wild, passionate sex with her… Get closer to her, brush her hair, touch her somewhere, lean in closer to her when you two talk…
Obviously, if she doesn’t seem to like it, just back off, and cut your losses short. Some guys get laid by being pushy and agressive and trying over and over… Because some girls play hard to get… But I DO NOT recommend doing that. Its her loss. If she wants to have sex, but plays games, cut her off. If she doesn’t reciprocate and feigns disinterest – its her loss. So basically, when you make a move, and lean in, get closer, or do a subtle touch somewhere… and she acts cold, or like she didn’t like it… Never try again! EVER… It doesn’t matter if she was genuinelly uninterested or faking it. Unless she attempts something, she’s not worth it.
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If you already have a woman in mind, and arent to serious about your friendship with her, you could just ask her if she would like to pursue a more sexual relationship. Assuming of course that she is single and isnt dating anyone at the present time. Now if your asking about how to get steady action, then go to the night club or bar around 1 AM and grab a beer and go up to a girl you like. The fact is, noone goes to the bars to meet someone to date, they go to the bar for a 1 night stand. Anyone who goes to the bar to meet a gf/bf isnt looking for a decent gf/bf. Hell the majority of the girls I’ve met at the bar (and taken home) all had boyfriends practically. The ones who didnt have boyfriends, I realized soon after why they didnt have boyfriends lol Good luck with this
Be honest, the more honest you are, the better things will turn out.
I can’t imagine that you don’t know how to get where it is you’re trying to go. You don’t have to be a member of the mile high club to get off! Take a girl out to dinner or a movie perhaps, have a pleasant intelligent conversation. Take a walk and get close> holding hands, arm on her shoulder. If things are going well, try to kiss her…see what happens. having an intimate relationship with someone is a process. It doesn’t happen like when you pay a hooker for an act. Don’t be so impatient and care about the person you are trying to sleep with. If all you want is to ejaculate, I’m sure you know how to make that happen all by yourself!
Compliments! But not flirty.TRUST ME! Im 60 yrs old every girl or woman wants to be told good things about herself. Don’ look for lying but don’ shy away from one every now and then. And laugh a little or smile when throwing in something in thats way out their. Even when your kidding women love compliments.Don’t we all!
you date a girl get to know her fall in love wait until you know its going to last then do it when you are both comfortable with the idea