Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
Getting Laid? What are the some good tips for getting laid?
What works for you? Besides booze.
Like if a girl asked me to hang out, what could I do that would lead to sex?
Im not a pervert, I just have no clue how to get laid.
My answer:
If a girl asks you to hang out, take it as a sign that there is a big chance she wants to have sex with you.
Look, booze is the wrong way. With alcohol, you might act stupid and regret the whole thing, if you remember it at all!
I used to have problems with this too. There is no short cut to solving this. If a girl calls you to hang out, make sure that you at least try to kiss her when you’re together.
By the way, go online and search on how to be more confident with women. I see that you feel that you are a pervert for wanting sex. You probably have years of limiting beliefs regarding women and sex. It will take time to fix this, but be patient.
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Be honest, the more honest you are, the better things will turn out.
you date a girl get to know her fall in love wait until you know its going to last then do it when you are both comfortable with the idea
If you already have a woman in mind, and arent to serious about your friendship with her, you could just ask her if she would like to pursue a more sexual relationship. Assuming of course that she is single and isnt dating anyone at the present time. Now if your asking about how to get steady action, then go to the night club or bar around 1 AM and grab a beer and go up to a girl you like. The fact is, noone goes to the bars to meet someone to date, they go to the bar for a 1 night stand. Anyone who goes to the bar to meet a gf/bf isnt looking for a decent gf/bf. Hell the majority of the girls I’ve met at the bar (and taken home) all had boyfriends practically. The ones who didnt have boyfriends, I realized soon after why they didnt have boyfriends lol Good luck with this
I can’t imagine that you don’t know how to get where it is you’re trying to go. You don’t have to be a member of the mile high club to get off! Take a girl out to dinner or a movie perhaps, have a pleasant intelligent conversation. Take a walk and get close> holding hands, arm on her shoulder. If things are going well, try to kiss her…see what happens. having an intimate relationship with someone is a process. It doesn’t happen like when you pay a hooker for an act. Don’t be so impatient and care about the person you are trying to sleep with. If all you want is to ejaculate, I’m sure you know how to make that happen all by yourself!
Compliments! But not flirty.TRUST ME! Im 60 yrs old every girl or woman wants to be told good things about herself. Don’ look for lying but don’ shy away from one every now and then. And laugh a little or smile when throwing in something in thats way out their. Even when your kidding women love compliments.Don’t we all!