With all that I’ve told you (in the get laid quiz that you took), you might be thinking that I would never recommend and teach you canned pickup lines for anything. Well, actually you might be like most of the students I have. No matter how much I teach you about state, controlling your mind and your feelings, and no matter how good and MONEY I make you feel… You still might not be able to make those first steps, those first approaches.
Or just do the approaches and still not have anything to say … no matter how great you feel or how awesome your state is. This is because even though state handles 90% of skill, you still need to have some experience or conscious knowledge about what to do. You can reach a point where it’s 100% automated, and that is our goal… But for now you need to start somewhere.
You need to acquire the basic amount of “get laid” skill. This is why for many people canned pickup lines can be used as training wheels. You can go and start using these lines in some situations, and if you do it enough became completely comfortable with approaching in those same situations (get the basic skill in these situations).
Like … Imagine we had a friend called David. Now… David finds it impossible to go and say “Hi what’s up, my name is David” to model-like women in the middle of the street no matter what he tries.
But what if I go and give him the easiest and most optimal “street opener” – an opener that has been specially designed to give you an excuse for stopping an attractive woman in the middle of the street? Would he be able to do it? Let me give you an obvious example like the “asking for the time” opener.
All he needs to do is ask a woman for the time. Will he able to do it? Of course! Now, that is a lot less optimal then most specially-designed openers because it doesn’t give you an excuse in a full street of people (why did you choose to ask her?) so in most situations it is a poor opener.
I am just giving it to you as an example, because you know that *at his skill level* – asking for the time will be a HUNDRED times easier for David to do, than going “Hi what’s up, my name is David.” Right? In essence, this means it’s easier for him to use a “canned opener.” Which is where I find the practical use for these things to be.
Now … A lot of professional dating openers are designed to be even easier then asking for the time, while making her interested at the same time.
If I give one of these street openers to David, he’ll go and do it on a couple of hot girls on the street, then some more, and some more, until he becomes so comfortable with approaching hot girls on the street, that he realizes he can go and say anything to them and have it go well.
Over time, he’ll get to the point where he’ll be able to just go and say “Hi what’s up, My name is David.” This, is the main reason you’re going to hear me mentioning canned openers, since my goal for you is not having to use them to get girls… just to use them as training wheels when you have to. And eventually, you’ll get to the point where you can go up to and make your attempt at getting laid with ANY woman.
